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Mistakes to avoid when interacting with students from different cultures
As the world becomes an increasingly smaller place, cultural diversity has become the norm. And with over 550,000 international students flooding into Australia every year, university campuses are a natural reflection of the world around. Navigating these cultural differences as a student can be challenging, whether that’s in the lecture hall or at home in your student accommodation. It’s not just about respecting the more outward signals such as language, appearances and clothing, it’s about understanding that cultural heritage extends through to values, customs, beliefs and other forms of expression. Showing compassion and understanding are key attributes that all students should aspire towards. Here’s some common mistakes that all students need to avoid.
Stereotyping
Although unconscious bias has become something of a modern buzzword, it’s really important to judge other students as you find them, without making any assumptions that are based on looks, language or behaviours. Rather than using your own standards as the norm to evaluate others, try and view everything through an open-minded lens. This will help you avoid any unnecessary misunderstandings and miscommunications. Avoid putting others in cultural boxes based on any preconceptions, because no one would appreciate being judged on the basis of someone else’s uninformed beliefs. Show respect at all times and ensure fairness and equity in all your interactions. This will also ensure peace and harmony reigns in your student household.
Top tip:
Whoever you share accommodation with, it’s important to show respect by being the best version of a housemate you possibly can be. Follow these golden rules and you won’t go wrong.
Ignoring cultural differences
Whilst it’s never OK to point out what you may perceive as a cultural difference, it’s also important to acknowledge that such differences do exist. What is considered right and wrong can vary wildly amongst different cultures, whether that’s regarding body language, behaviour, expressions, food or clothing to name just a few. Cultural tolerance is about being mindful of these differences, and showing respectful accommodation. It works both ways. When international students arrive in Australia, the culture shock can be difficult to manage, with many students struggling to adjust to their new environment. Being mindful of any different communication styles, values and norms shows that we appreciate all cultures as equal, and equally valid.
Top tip:
Celebrate cultural differences and embrace diversity by demonstrating interest and understanding. Show friendship and empathy to any student that may be struggling to settle in to their new home.
Not leaning in or learning
When you move into your new student accommodation, your housemates could come from anywhere around the world. A common mistake is to ignore that opportunity or have the mistaken belief that the host culture is somehow more superior. Australia was actually founded on immigrants and is proud to be considered one of the world’s greatest immigration nations. Our heritage draws from the cultures of many, because leaning in and learning from other cultures is the main reason that the country has grown to be the land of opportunity that it is today. If there is a clash of understandings, use it as an opportunity to ask questions, learn and embrace the differences.
Top tip:
Students are encouraged to take the time to learn about other cultural backgrounds, as this can improve understanding of different perspectives and experiences.
Making assumptions
Humans are hard wired to make quick assessments of others around us. Up until now we have been programmed to do this by using a whole host of clues that feed our initial snapshot. These might include looks, language, clothing and behaviour. That has all changed, and it is no longer considered acceptable to reach quick and ill-informed conclusions simply based on visual signals. Instead of making these quick assumptions, find out more about others through conversation and experiences. Getting to know others on an individual level is far more important than assuming they fit a stereotype and treating them as such.
Top tip:
Whilst some international students may speak multiple languages, any level of language proficiency should never be assumed. On that basis, avoid using jargon or slang as this can be isolating for those new to the language.
Ignoring cultural sensitivities
It’s important to be aware of and sensitive to any cultural sensitivities such as taboos, customs and practises. Some topics or activities can also be found as offensive or disrespectful to certain cultures, something which may differ vastly to your own experience. Additionally, certain gestures or expressions can have different cross-cultural meanings. Whilst it’s almost impossible to be mindful of every single culture at all times, focus in on the present company or housemates you live with and ensure that there can be no misinterpretation of behaviours that could lead to any misunderstandings. Avoid comparing one culture to another, or offering advice on how to ‘fit in’.
Top tip:
It’s always better to be over-cautious in these circumstances, and your intentions to foster a culturally inclusive environment will always be appreciated far more.
Using humour to break the ice
In some uncomfortable circumstances, it may seem instinctively appropriate to use humour as a way to break the ice. Generally speaking, this is never a good idea in multicultural company. Sarcasm and jokes are often specific to a cultural tone and tend to translate awkwardly – even in the same language. Attempting this feat in an unknown space, even in good faith, is incredibly risky and is not advised. Whilst it can be useful in some scenarios, it can also be hugely offensive which is never a good way to start a relationship.
Top tip:
Save the jokes for when you really get to know your fellow students – and even then, don’t forget to be culturally sensitive. Steer well clear of any topics that may cause offence, and show respect and understanding at all times.
